
List of Rules:
Below is a collection of rules in relation to "The Midnight Manor" membership and events please scroll down to find the set of rules relevant to you.
*Updated Dec 2023
Online Membership
By reading the following I agree that…
-I am a consenting adult over the age 18 (and have provided valid ID to confirm my legal name and date of birth) and are knowingly participating in BDSM and other kinky related activities in which adult themes may be present.
-I will not impersonate another member
-I understand that everyone attending has the right to refuse to engage with me without needing to provide a reason.
-I also have the right to refuse to engage with anyone (outside of staff/moderators) without having to provide any reason.
-I acknowledge the staff/moderators reserve the right to remove me or limit my access if I’m not following the rules or being disruptive/unsafe.
-I understand that the wording and conditions of this membership may change over time and will keep myself up-to-date with any changes.
-I understand the rules of the club in regards to etiquette, different event rules and the different play zones. I also acknowledge that a copy of the rules will be available online and in person at each event/activity.
-I understand that phones, camera’s or any other recording device are not to be used in the event space unless an area is specifically marked off for such activities by the staff. I shall also not make any recording of another individual without their direct consent and may be required to delete any media that violates this policy. I understand there may be legal actions should I violate this rule.
-I acknowledge that I am responsible for my own actions and will not hold “The Midnight Manor” and its other divisions, staff and/or associates responsible in any way.
-If I have any questions or concerns I may contact The Midnight Manor to clarify the issue.
In Person Membership:
By filling out the following I agree that…
I am a consenting adult over the age 18 and are knowingly participating in BDSM related activities in which nudity and sex may be present.
I understand the rules of the club in regards to etiquette, different event rules and the different play zones. I also acknowledge that a copy of the rules will be available online and in person at each event.
I understand that I need consent before engaging with others at any event.
By signing below I acknowledge that I am responsible for my own safety and will not hold “Obsidian Rose”, “The Midnight Manor”, its other divisions, staff and/or associates responsible in any way.
I understand that everyone attending has the right to refuse to engage with me without needing to provide a reason.
I also have the right to refuse to engage with anyone (outside of event staff) without having to provide any reason.
At The Midnight Manor events we use the standard kinky colour safety system (Green for good, Yellow for caution/breathier, and Red for Stop) to aid in consent. Should a colour call out be ignored staff will step in and address the situation.
The possession or consumption of Illegal drugs is not permitted during the event
I am responsible for cleaning my own body fluids (and any other mess I may make) using the materials provided during the event. I am also responsible for ensuring my body is in a hygienic state before coming to an event.
I understand that phones, camera’s or any other recording device are not to be used in the event space unless an area is specifically marked off for such activities by the staff. I shall also not make any recording of another individual without their direct consent and may be required to delete any media that violates that. I understand there may be legal actions should I violate this rule.
I acknowledge that the event staff reserve the right to remove me from the event if I’m not following the rules or being disruptive/unsafe without refund.
I understand that my access to the event may be limited at the staff’s discretion if I am overly intoxicated.
I understand that my information will be retained for legal purposes and not be given/sold to any third parties, and that this membership qualifies me for a “General Midnight Manor Membership” as well.
I acknowledge I have been given a verbal orientation to these rules by an event staff member.